Graduate Testimonials
A power-packed course, genuine, authentic and amazing.
A magical weekend… masterful, effective, simple, deep and useful.
Great material presented in an entertaining way. I appreciated the heart and vulnerability you modeled.
How to have a great relationship
Imagine yourself sitting with your partner in a quiet place, hearing and responding to each other at a whole new level.
The tension softens as understanding returns. For the first time in a while, you both feel hopeful—confident that your love can deepen and grow again.
This is what couples experience at Tools for True Love, a two-day immersive retreat designed to reignite connection, rebuild trust, and restore the joy of being together.
More effective than therapy alone
After 32 years of supporting couples, we have found that this immersive approach—based on experiential learning—greatly accelerates positive change and growth. It delivers healing and lasting change, at one third the cost of private therapy.
Who we are
We are a real couple who are open about the struggles we have had—like those you have likely had yourself. We will demonstrate how to resolve even the thorniest issues while sustaining a respectful connection. This is actually not that hard, with the right tools.
We are a pair of stubborn, opinionated and seemingly incompatible people—who are committed to loving each other. Witnessing how we sort out significant disagreements will make all the difference in your ability to successfully resolve your own issues.
This was leagues beyond other programs and facilitators… incomparable. The level of preparedness, professionalism and helpful interventions was unlike anything I've experienced.
I had given up after seeing many therapists… this was the most productive activity we have done. Robin and Michael shared decades of expertise pulling out the best from many traditions with compassion that made me see my issues without being threatened or feeling bad… demonstrating simple yet profound exercises. I would recommend this for anyone in a relationship!
This was the most comprehensive, informed, concrete and helpful relationship support we have ever received.
2½ days to rediscover the love of your life
Burned out on repeating the same old fights?
- Learn to reliably handle anger and conflict without blaming, blowing up, or drifting apart
- Find harmony and ease as you discover how to resolve chronic grievances—feel trust and confidence again
Do you struggle to feel truly understood?
- Discover how to express your feelings and ask for what you need and want—without resistance or drama
- Cultivate a safe space to listen and really hear each other—even if that has not gone well in the past
- Develop a family culture based on dignity and respect —including when you disagree
Do you want to feel more supported and valued?
- Share day-to-day responsibilities and stressors without bickering or feeling taken for granted
- Become a united team, knowing that you have each other's back—in good times and bad
Need more tenderness and affection? Consistent positivity and trust?
- Find mutual regard and appreciation for who you are and what you each contribute
- Learn simple tools to stay connected and positive—especially when you feel stressed and overwhelmed
- Quickly repair breakdowns and hurt feelings so you can stay open-hearted with each other
What you can expect
Connect with your partner in a meaningful way
Enjoy having the time, space and support to renew your connection in a positive and lasting way.
I enjoyed the intentional, comfortable intensity of two days focused on our marriage. It was a great weekend!
—School teacher
Resolve problems and mend hurts quickly
Clear up misunderstandings and chronic complaints so you can stop fighting and enjoy being together.
My parents can fight now, get over it and still be loving.
—Teenager
Supports all your relationships
Prevent alienation and become more effective at home, with other family members, and at work. Take pride in the example you are setting.
One of the most valuable things I've ever done. I'm much more effective in what I do at work and how I communicate with my children… This will allow us to really enjoy our life…
—Corporate CEO
Rekindle the pleasure
You will learn simple and effective ways to maintain connection even when—especially when—you are otherwise busy, pre-occupied or stressed. Everything is easier and more fun when there is a background of goodwill.
I learned an amazing collection of practical tools that I can actually use and that are working for me in all my close relationships. My only regret is not having had these skills a long time ago.
—Business consultant
Education, not therapy
Relax in the realization that you are not alone in having challenges. Your work with your partner will be in private. We will provide you with coaching support to resolve issues with more ease using a simple, effective, and fair system.
I love the humor. Seeing you model working through real life issues was an inspiration and a huge help.
—Registered Nurse
MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
Attend all sessions and you are guaranteed a full refund if you are not satisfied with your experience
Who this is for
Lasting love is not just a romantic fantasy, it is absolutely possible with the right tools and support—learning, growing and flourishing.
This is a fit for you if...
- Your struggles are getting in the way of the joy and pleasure you want with each other
- You are in a committed relationship that is missing the intimacy and spark you once shared
- You are in a new relationship and want to build for the future and avoid past mistakes
- You want to model a respectful, healthy and connected relationship for your children
This is practical education and skill-building, not therapy. You will not be sharing your process as a couple in front of others—your work together is private. We'll provide personal support, as needed.
This is a safe and comfortable space limited to six couples.
OUTSTANDING VALUE
Average rating by all participants over the last ten years for the overall value of this course (scale of 1-10)
This weekend reminded me that all the most joyful meaningful moments of my life have been with my spouse. With so many challenges and conflicts weighing us down in the passing years, it was wonderful to realize that again.
We got married 21 years ago because we were happier together. That happiness got buried under years of challenges and demands. What a miracle to reconnect this weekend and find happiness that is still true for both of us.
The tools we received this weekend made it safe to share what I'm feeling. I had been emotionally shut down for years… in a self-imposed prison. It feels wonderful to have finally opened the door.
I appreciate that we now have little connecting things we can do in the midst of our stress-filled busy lives to keep bringing back a sense of connection
Thank you for helping us develop a stronger foundation for our marriage. This is the greatest gift of all.
I feel closer to my husband than I ever have before.
The workshop is amazing! I highly recommend doing this! I have never been this informed about how to be in a relationship. I only wish I would have had these skills earlier in my life!
My husband and I went to a few different couples counselors… a lot of long hours for no real benefits. This was a completely different story... actually reprogramming the way we respond to each other, especially in heated situations… We relate to each other completely differently, with so much more love and understanding.
Useful not just to love relationships, but also to parents and professionals—anyone wanting to connect with others.